THERE IS A BIG DIFFERENCE BETWEEN AN OK LIFE ?? & A LIT UP ?EXCITED ? HAPPY ? FUN ? LIFE OF TOTAL FREEDOM AND EXPANSION ?
Sitting on the flight home… thinking about how many HUGE changes have happened in just the last 6 months!
Moved the kids across the country.
New schools, new state.
Purchased my first home.
New dynamic of inspiring son rather than mothering him.
Bought my first Chanel (or 3 – hahaha my audience will get the humor in this)
Working with successful entrepreneurs – teaching them how to feel permission to have it all… be it all… do it all.
Remembered parts of me that had been shut off for a very longgg time.
Lost 20 lbs.
Got a chef
Had my first $92k month for the business.
Became friends with some bad asses in the 1%
LITERALLY THE HAPPIEST I HAVE EVER BEEN
Look the best I have ever looked
Get gifts in the mail from clients now! eek! lol
Now.. if this were me 3 years ago reading this I would be wondering HOW the hell someone accomplished that much GROWTH in 6 months. Whereas for me now – this is an obvious progression of choosing a life of FREEDOM JOY AND FUN.
If you don’t believe you’re allowed to have it then you can’t. I’m not going to lie – it takes work to shift this belief.
I have worked my mother lovin’ ass off to feel worthy of true satisfaction and happiness. It takes literal neural re-wiring.
“To go against the dominant thinking of your family, friends, & most of the people you see everyday, is perhaps the most difficult act of heroism you can perform.” – Theodore White
Do you know how many people break out of co-dependent, broke, unhappy family dynamics?? Statistically…. ONE IN A MILLION. Same stats as a born genius.
When we are raised in survival – we are not to look out for ourselves, to take care of ourselves, to recognize our wants… needs… longings.. desires.
We are not taught to tune into how we feel – we are taught to be quiet and be content. (How can an empty human handle your longings?)
We are taught to ignore the things we fantasize about doing & becoming.
This training just continues on generation after generation.
Simply put – it’s scary as hell to outgrow the people around you, outgrow beliefs, places, ways of being.
When you begin to change how you THINK, how you REACT to them, how you use your TIME… what you believe you DESERVE…
When you change what you are available for..
When you change what you are UNAVAILABLE for (guilt, fear, manipulating, doubts etc)
… they will have temper tantrums – and we are ok with that.
YOU CANNOT BE A HIGH ACHIEVER IF YOU DON’T KNOW HOW TO TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF… PERIOD.
The work is to be intelligent enough to recognize this isn’t something we do solo. It’s ABSOLUTELY laughable to think I could have ever outgrown all of the things I thought and believed, felt guilty about, excused (in myself and others) on my own. 100% NO.
The #1 thing I see people doing to never break out of this is telling themselves they should have to figure it out themselves… like .. somehow they’re fkd up if they have to pay someone to help them.
Here’s the rewrite for that – wealthy, healthy people see a problem and then find a solution. WHATEVER that actually takes – WITHOUT letting a lot of time pass.
We see the problem, recognize that how we think and show up is allowing that problem to exist, and immediately pull in resource to uplevel it.
This is literally the exact opposite of the “I’ll do it myself survival mentality”
The second biggest mistake is letting time pass – not having a sense of urgency because they don’t tell themselves the truth – they pretend the damage dine is insignificant – sort of like how a smoker justifies smoking knowing damn well it will kill him.
The work is to step into this WITH SUPPORT – from someone who has the results you want and you can HEAR their voice well – AND to do it NOW. RIGHT NOW.
I get that most people can never get themselves to do this… that’s just what it is .. that’s why there is a 10% and a 1%.
But you CAN. You can opt into this life. 100%
There is ZERO chance in the planet that if you decided that you are IN THIS 100% UNTIL you get the results – that you wouldn’t get the results.
ZERO CHANCE OF FAILURE. Failure is defined by quitting.
We don’t quit.
We don’t roll over.
We never stop.
We never settle.
WE DO IT UNTIL.
The work is the work and will be different amounts for everyone – but if you are willing to do YOUR work – this is yours for the taking. And I gt to sat that as a self-made woman.
I WOULD KNOW.
I’m just an everyday woman who came from a crazy unhealthy home, loads of trauma and abuse… was on welfare.. and worked my ass off to do THIS work right here.
and now – my life looks like this – imagine me in 3 years )))) (riiight?!)
There is nothing different about me than you – unless you are someone using the excuse of how you should be able to do this alone or some excuse about why you need to wait or prove something first. ?
If you got value in this – please share (#teachonereachone)
If this resonates – I have a new group program for you – doing this EXACT work… it’s why I created it. IT’S ABSOLUTE FIREEE (details below)
PS: My new program EVOLVE is here!
My whole life has been training to teach you this. My soul is literally SCREAMING this from the mountain tops.
I’m not going to lie – it was a long journey to get to this place of TRULY believing and OWNING we all get to have true SATISFACTION FUN AND WEALTH always. Literally.
I’m going to repeat that – that YOU literally get to have EVERYTHING YOU WANT – BE EVERYTHING YOU WANT – BE SATISFIED – HAVE FUN EVERY DAY – AND BE LIT UP HAPPY… ALWAYS.
There are way too many people with the skills, passion and drive to create their true dream life being held back by sabotaging beliefs and excuses because they haven’t done this work.
NOT ANY MORE.
I bring my Marine like boundaries and we play in the no fly zone.
We will work together for 4 weeks to up level every damn area of your life and you will get experience growing and enjoying life at the pace I do.
This is for the mom just starting out as much as it is for the multimillionaire feeling trapped by his/her life.. for the 18-year-old that knows they are meant for greatness & the 70-year-old that just never quits.
* I will help you literally change the structure of your brain from someone who survives into someone who thrives… erasing the old traumas and bs. (I meet plenty of wealthy people stuck in survival.)
* I will teach you exactly how I do it day-to-day – step by step every day – how it has changed from when I started until now and how I am able to GROW SO RAPIDLY in all areas – money, fame, impact, discipline, looks, things, love, fun, friendships, freedom… ALL OF IT.
* I’ll be showing you exactly how to let others opinions and beliefs, guilt trips, fear voices and judgements roll right off you PERMANENTLY. It literally won’t affect you anymore – and I’ll show you how to recover when it does.
* I’ll teach you how to NEVER be trapped by someones else’s rules, laziness or messiness, and expectations again.
* We will cover ALL of the pieces of this – all the different things holding you back – in all the areas. EVERYONE gets breakthrough – PERIOD. This is my commitment.
* I will teach you what it really means to outgrow someone – how to know if you have – how to handle the fear that it might happen. You will never be confused about this again.
* I will support you the whole time on LANGUAGE to use when you are upleveling and dealing with anyone from family & friends to clients and business partners.
* I will teach you how to have day-to-day clarity on what your power move is for that moment so that you are up leveling every single area of your life without overwhelm.
We begin Jan 2 – and we go for 4 weeks > ALL IN <
I will be LIVE every week for the trainings and available for ALL questions the entire month in the private group.
This is for ANYONE in ANY FIELD – man or woman.
This is for ANYONE who is ready to UPLEVEL right now – and permanently shift the old stories and beliefs left over.
You will get extra support through audios & workbooks in the private FB group – I create as we go so you get the maximum value.
Everything is in your membership area indefinitely for you to go back and watch anytime.
I am also offering a rare VIP option!!
1:1 with me for the 4 weeks! (Only my highest level clients get this)
NOTE: This is worth 10x the price all day – opportunities pass ❤
ARE YOU ready to EVOLVE?! ❤
I’ll see you in there!
CHEERS to the greatest year of our lives.