If you are just trying to survive and fit in – you’d better know the rules by heart.
If you are a leader CREATING something new – THERE ARE NO RULES.
I remember when I was first began this success journey there was a friend of mine, a mentor of sorts that was giving me advice.
I was just making my first $10k months roughly… I was working as a health coach and also helping some friends and beginning as a business/ success coach.
The business was having success and I was just barely beginning to be myself and speak my message. I was seeing what people were doing that was sabotaging their own success and I was beginning to call them out and help them see what was going on.
This friend was particularly worried about me because he thought – once you help everyone on your fb or out of the people who know you, you will have no one else to help… it’s just a fluke. What’s your plan when these clients run out?
I definitely tried to ignore it but hadn’t evolved to the state of power I am at now, and really it went in and scared the shit out of me. I felt like it was all for nothing, it was temporary, all of my hard work would be for nothing.
For the next 30 days I was having trouble motivating myself. I was in a constant state of panic… I wanted to quit. And most definitely, I didn’t dare to invest in myself right then… so the moment I needed support most, I contracted.
I let regular people around me, not doing this work, not stepping into the calling I was, tell me their fears, and I let it kick my ever lovin’ ass. (I let this happen again once after this and never again.. but the next time it was only 2 weeks)
I have been told everything any normal human would think for someone like me (A welfare mom working as a nanny for 10 years making $400 a week – going online as an unidentified coach helping others make money lol)
It’s easy to see how I was a big target for the – you can’t do this’s.
Only an amazing thing happened. I helped my clients leave their 9-5’s and make tons of money. And I did it fast… I also hit $380k my first year as a SOLO entrepreneur.
Virtually unheard of.
Makes no damn sense to anyone.
Was against everything everyone thought.
YET I DID IT.
Regular old me.
Want to know the secret? 2 come to mind.
1. I recognized that they think I couldn’t do it because they couldn’t. Nothing more. STOP LISTENING TO THEM.
2. THERE ARE NO RULES WHEN YOU ARE CREATING SOMETHING NEW. If I wanted to truly change myself, change my life, and change the world… I was going to have to get comfortable with reactions of people as I broke all the rules.
So after a month passed – & I’d had enough of my BS cry baby behavior – I went into full FK IT mode.
Fk the rules
fk these crappy play small standards
fk what’s normal
fk this feeling of helplessness
I was going for it. I pictured myself being 95 looking back at this day.. this moment. THIS DECISION.
I went and hired a mentor – with money I had no idea how I was going to make – and asked every stupid question, let every emotion out, and did everything that came to mind.
Truth be told, I used my online marketing to teach the people around me what I was unavailable for… and it worked too.
I started to speak up about the nay-sayers (I have an e-book somewhere on this – post me! below of you want the link to that)
I talked about people putting their fears on you and what to do. I started talking about unspoken things.. like:
– how you know you are the smartest in the room
– how when shit hits the fan it’s ALWAYS YOU
– how you aren’t the same as regular people
People gossiped about when I was depressed, how I had attempted suicide when I was younger, how I had been a boy crazy party girl.
So I started talking about how it felt going through those things, what I had learned what was behind it and..
– how people try to keep you down when you rise
– how people will make you bad so they don’t have to feel the tension of them not showing up.
– how you are the girl who walked through the fire – burnt as hell still carrying buckets of water for everyone else.
And this voice has turned into a global corporation. I am the product. People pay money just to be in the room with me. People want to hear what I have to say because IT CHANGES THEM.
It FREE’s them.
Not because I am special – we are the same.
But because I was willing to break ALL THE DAMN rules and create something new.
This is a journey of BECOMING.
This is a journey of learning to not give a fk about what everyone else thinks, they aren’t you. They aren’t called to this. YOU ARE.
Time to show up
PS: Ready to EVOLVE?
My whole life has been training to teach you this. My soul is literally SCREAMING this from the mountain tops.
I’m not going to lie – it was a long journey to get to this place of TRULY believing and OWNING we all get to have true SATISFACTION FUN AND WEALTH always. Literally.
I’m going to repeat that – that YOU literally get to have EVERYTHING YOU WANT – BE EVERYTHING YOU WANT – BE SATISFIED – HAVE FUN EVERY DAY – AND BE LIT UP HAPPY… ALWAYS.
There are way too many people with the skills, passion and drive to create their true dream life being held back by sabotaging beliefs and excuses because they haven’t done this work.
NOT ANY MORE.
I bring my Marine like boundaries and we play in the no fly zone.
We will work together for 4 weeks to up level every damn area of your life and you will get experience growing and enjoying life at the pace I do.
This is for the mom just starting out as much as it is for the multimillionaire feeling trapped by his/her life.. for the 18-year-old that knows they are meant for greatness & the 70-year-old that just never quits.
* I will help you literally change the structure of your brain from someone who survives into someone who thrives… erasing the old traumas and bs. (I meet plenty of wealthy people stuck in survival.)
* I will teach you exactly how I do it day-to-day – step by step every day – how it has changed from when I started until now and how I am able to GROW SO RAPIDLY in all areas – money, fame, impact, discipline, looks, things, love, fun, friendships, freedom… ALL OF IT.
* I’ll be showing you exactly how to let others opinions and beliefs, guilt trips, fear voices and judgements roll right off you PERMANENTLY. It literally won’t affect you anymore – and I’ll show you how to recover when it does.
* I’ll teach you how to NEVER be trapped by someones else’s rules, laziness or messiness, and expectations again.
* We will cover ALL of the pieces of this – all the different things holding you back – in all the areas. EVERYONE gets breakthrough – PERIOD. This is my commitment.
* I will teach you what it really means to outgrow someone – how to know if you have – how to handle the fear that it might happen. You will never be confused about this again.
* I will support you the whole time on LANGUAGE to use when you are upleveling and dealing with anyone from family & friends to clients and business partners.
* I will teach you how to have day-to-day clarity on what your power move is for that moment so that you are up leveling every single area of your life without overwhelm.
We begin Jan 2 – and we go for 4 weeks > ALL IN <
I will be LIVE every week for the trainings and available for ALL questions the entire month in the private group.
This is for ANYONE in ANY FIELD – man or woman.
This is for ANYONE who is ready to UPLEVEL right now – and permanently shift the old stories and beliefs left over.
You will get extra support through audios & workbooks in the private FB group – I create as we go so you get the maximum value.
Everything is in your membership area indefinitely for you to go back and watch anytime.
I am also offering a rare VIP option!!
1:1 with me for the 4 weeks! (Only my highest level clients get this)
NOTE: This is worth 10x the price all day – opportunities pass ❤
ARE YOU ready to EVOLVE?! ❤
I’ll see you in there!
CHEERS to the greatest year of our lives.