If there’s anything I have learned about myself and you… it’s that we will get what we want. You just might not see clearly what it is that you truly desire.
When we focus on something and it is in our awareness of want… we pay attention to it, we long for it, talk about it.. we end up with it.
There’s a lot of mischief that can happen in here, but today I am going to show you a big one.. YOU DON’T HAVE RESULTS in the area you long for because something else is mattering to you more right now.
I’ve done this over and over in my business – but nothing as glaringly obvious as after I got divorced. For many reasons a woman will protect herself by dimming her light in times of stress, and I did.
As soon as I was out of the relationship the waves of femininity, sexuality, and outward expression came flooding back like an old lost friend. This became top of my wants. I wanted to have my body back, like the hard times had never happened. That’s what I wanted.
Here’s the thing that can happen – and does happen to loads of us – and happens often –
Getting my body back to badass level was top priority in this current time and space – I was healthy enough to let my priority be my priority… I am going to bullet point this for you so you can really see it – this will change your life if you see it.
1. Wanted badass-level body
2. Recognized I wanted it most of all in this time and space
3. Gave myself permission to let it be a priority as I know when I give myself what I truly long for and need – I show u big relentlessly.
4. I let that be the focus – but was not showing up in a way that got badass results quickly
5. Let it keep staying the priority without getting the breakthrough results that would let me feel I got what I wanted.
6. Other areas of my life began to decline a bit as I let this take priority and let it keep being priority because I wasn’t getting the level of results at the pace I longed for.
I had other areas begin to slip a bit because I gave myself permission to let what I truly wanted matter more – and that’s brilliant. I’d choose that all day every day – however…. the mischief happens when we LIE to ourselves and pretend we are doing what is required to get the result in that area.
– I need to spent more time w my kids but I watch Netflix for those hours instead and keep telling myself I need to spend more time w kids that’s why I can’t take my business to the net level – or that’s why I cant run global retreats.
– I need to work on this relationship and make sure my marriage is thriving – yet I bicker and talk about stupid shit that doesn’t matter and resolve nothing because I don’t require myself to be emotionally mature in the moment. Just drama in trade for wild success.
The list goes on and on.
You may be clear what you want… but unless you are truly showing up for it – there are some pretty big consequences.
My Ah-Ha: If I don’t show up huge to get epic results w my body – I will keep letting these other areas wane – because I JUST WANT IT and will keep making space for it until I have it.
So if I want to be a great mom, show up for y’all, and make shit tons of $… I’d be wise to give myself what I want in epic proportions – and stop lying to myself about if I am truly actually doing what it takes to make this happen AND MAKE IT HAPPEN in a timely manner. I’m ok with a temporary decline in an area because I GET TO CHOOSE WHAT IS IMPORTANT – but I am wildly unavailable for letting the area fail or go into redzone.
This is the rewire I needed to motivate myself to get my ass to every workout near me- eat like a badass and call in any resource I needed. Check check check – now the other slowed areas will pick right back up.
NOT ONLY – do I get what I want and get to get results in every single area of my life – but I also strengthen my discipline, and my ability to see my own BS as I do this.
EVERYTHING GETS FASTER & STRONGER
EVERY AREA IMPROVES
My whole life is a living Netflix show of STUPID FAST growth.
And I am happy. Truly happy.
I want this for you too… so today – we just tell ourselves the truth. ❤
Unavailable for hiding what I want.
Unavailable for not having what I want.
Unavailable for having it at a cost – I get to have it ALL.
End of story.
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