I wake up every day knowing that today I will grow, I will absorb, heal, learn, expand, understand, express…
and I will share.
Everyday I get to get a little more clear who I am, what matters to me and grow into the woman I feel called to be.
Everyday I get to do whatever I want… because what I want is always a reflection of who I am called to be.
Do I feel like going to hot yoga?
Lay in the sun and read?
Walk the beach?
Dance and jam to music?
Pound out my to do list?
Is there a subject I am honed in on and want to study?
Is there something I long to experience in order to grow or get seasoned in an area?
Do I want to tune out and clean for a while with brain off?
What do I WANT?
This is the same question I ask when I am investing. Not can I afford it, do I trust myself, what if blah blah…
WHAT DO I WANT?
Dating – with a man – WHAT DO I WANT? WHAT FEELS GOOD?
Creating programs – WHAT DO I WANT? What feels exciting to teach?
Hiring- WHAT DO I WANT? How would I like to be supported?
Structure of my business – WHAT DO I WANT? What feels like freedom?
This is not the normal way of doing life… this is why people are so confused as to how I am able to grow so fast. How I am able to up level and change every area of my life.
It’s a completely different way of doing life… and here’s the question.
How happy are you?
How lit the fk up do you feel??
How excited are you every morning when you wake up?
How fulfilled and satisfied do you feel??
I know it seems like the reason you are held back is because of circumstances… trust me .. I get that.
When I was on welfare as a single mom working 30 hours, going to school full-time and running kids to sports, I thought that was the problem.
BUT IT’S NOT
THAT’S NOT WHY YOU AREN’T LIT THE FK UP – LIVING YOUR WILDEST BEST LIFE…
It’s not even almost why.
The reason why is because you don’t believe it’s ok to. You think it’s selfish, bad, dangerous… you will turn into someone you don’t want to be, you will leave people behind, you will be “that person”…
You don’t believe it’s possible to live EVERY… SINGLE… DAY… LIT UP AND HAPPY – truly fkg happy.
“Every day Mandy? That’s not possible. I can’t even feel that way for one full day…”
The truth is unless and until you decide to allow yourself to face this and rewire your thinking to back up this new belief… you will never truly breakthrough.. you will just keep wondering how those other seemingly special people do it.
You will keep trying to manage your life, redo your morning schedule over and over…
buy more books you don’t read
get another certification
try to get your kids to be different
try to get your spouse to think different
Yes, you will release the things you don’t want.
Yes that feels scary in the beginning.. I know. I’ve been there, still end up here as I grow.
But it’s scarier to face a future of struggle, overwhelm, chaos and never truly living up to your potential. Never really being truly happy, fulfilled and leaving your mark on this world.
NEVER really knowing what it could have been if you had worked through this.
Fk that. #unavailable
You deserve to have it all.
You deserve to be happy, and as you do… you participate in creating the world where others are allowed to do the same.
Participating in the world where we all have stupid arbitrary rules and shoulds and just get by every day and hope it gets better.
You are powerful and you DO contribute one way or the other – there is no neutral.
Time to wake up sister ❤
PS: WILD AT HEART
For the truly good people, ready to stop playing small, finally embrace their wild, & live life lit the fk up!
You weren’t meant to be a puzzle piece forced to fit in.
Each day waking up faced with expectations, rules, and more ways you have to show up and be more than who you are just to feel safe.
Each day another little pill to swallow.
Each day bending just a little more to chase the dollar, the fitness, the glory.. never truly owning what would make YOU truly happy.
IT’S THE TRULY GOOD PEOPLE THAT STRUGGLE WITH THIS THE MOST!
What would make you feel lit the fk up every single day of your life?
Are you truly living?
Are you truly deciding?
Are you truly happy?
Are you ENJOYING EVERY SECOND OF LIFE?
Do you have fun?
Do you feel satisfied?
You aren’t meant to feel like something is missing.
You aren’t meant to be afraid something bad is going to happen when you DO WHAT YOU WANT.
You are meant to thrive and the feeling that something bad is going to happen is a BAD HABIT born out of some rules that need to change.
It’s like living life with the devil sitting on your shoulder.
There is SOMETHING MORE.
There is FREEDOM, EXCITEMENT and HAPPINESS.
It is 100% possible for you to live every single day truly lit the fk up and happy.
There are some things you will need to understand and for sure some energy you will have to be around to shift this.
I am doing 5 days of intense diving into the WILD.
Learning how to let it go, surrender, release emotions, and get the reward of the strength on the other side. AS you learn this process you will begin to watch yourself expand and grow into a person who can take the hits and GENUINELY still be happy and enjoying life.
People are shocked at how I was able to handle how fast my business grew, family emergencies, rejection in business, divorce, single motherhood, old trauma and wounds coming up..
Going from a single mom on welfare making $400 a week to business in track for 7 figures in 3 years is one hell of a journey .. and really..
WHAT IS THE POINT IF I DON’T ENJOY IT!
This is and was always about you becoming the person who is enjoying the SHIT OUT OF LIFE.
If you are not waking up every day excited to the core about your life.. this is for you.
This is about
– Learning to feel safe having what you want
– Learning boundaries
– Learning to feel safe DOING YOUR OWN THING
– Recognizing what shit is stuck to you that never belonged there
– Learning what rules you have allowed to slip in
– Spitting out the pills you take to numb yourself because you can’t be what the world says you need to be
– Processing and releasing all the trapped emotions inside that keep building and controlling you
– Changing the energetic STANDARD YOU HAVE and raising the mother fkg BAR
– Learning BRAVERY. Being brave enough to make moves that BACK YOURSELF and your dreams
I have the life of my dreams
I am lit the fk up EVERY SINGLE DAY
I feel truly free and worthy to have all I ever long for or desire
I know how to get clear what I want and have the bravery to go for it.
This is all learnable. I didn’t know how to 3 years ago.
The results from this are epic.
EVERY DAY OF YOUR LIFE YOU GET TO FEEL EXCITED< SAFE< LIT UP < EXPANSIVE < AND FREE AF.
Not one day a week
Not 2 days a month
You get to do CRAZY WILD epic things and feel excited doing them
No crippling fear
No being taken advantage of
No confusion – fk confusion
No more swallowing the pill
No bending over and taking it in the arse
No having to protect the whole world from danger
No repeat failure of same things
No anxiety, anger, resentment
No playing small
No holding back
Today you can decide you’re waging a war against something that truly matters…
Today you can say ENOUGH IS ENOUGH.
Today you can DECIDE YOU GET TO BE REALLY TRULY HAPPY.
Today you get to say FK the rules and FK those pills.
Today you get to stop playing into others fears and smallness and EXPAND into the person you envision in your mind.
Today you get to say yes TO BEING WILD AT HEART.
Mother fucking WILD
Passion Excitement , awe, wonder FREEDOM
Safety Sense of KNOWING
Confident Relaxed Secure
The work is the work.
❤ The savvy move is to recognize the work needs to be done and jump in. ❤
WILD AT HEART
5 days of life changing work to embrace your true potential and LIVE LIT THE FK UP.
I can’t wait to see you in there!!