I get it sister… We need to be unreachable.
We need to be the leader.
We need to distance ourself.. protect our time.. protect our image.
We can’t engage in our mentors groups.. or else we will seem like a follower.
Can’t comment on their blogs because I ‘ll be a follower not the bad ass leader I am.
We can’t tell people we have a mentor because we will look like a student rather than the teacher… and DAH.. you think they’re amazing so why wouldn’t all of your clients just skip you and go straight to them!?
We can’t give credit to the brilliance we flow through because then we are irrelevant.
We can’t comment on peoples posts because we need to be sure we look like we don’t have time for that… or better yet – WE DON’T HAVE TIME FOR THAT. We are too “busy”.
I have many mentors – I have even more peers – and I have even MORE clients. WE ALL DO THIS.
Some of what has been modeled to me has been:
— Hide behind a curtain, use power to keep the “kids” in check. Would refer to themselves as the parent. This creates a dependency and a feeling of needing to stay w the mentor. Tends to be very scary and trauma focused. I get a sense of control and power with this.
— Us vs Them.. Building a cool kids group. The more “they” don’t like “us”.. the more magnetic I become to the “us”. It works. Trump uses it. It creates a sense of belonging which we know from Maslow’s hierarchy of needs IS RELEVANT.
— High end – I’m only available for high end coaching.. and then when you’re in.. I am going to up-sell to you daily. This works.. once someone has invested with you .. the likelihood that they will again is significant. You get a sense of being badass with this.
— Untouchable – I will allow you to have access to me and it’s your privilege to be here vibes. They mentor you but don’t know you, your kids names, your life or your business. It’s more like being a resource and giving you good one liners along the way that can help you shift quickly. You get sense of Importance with this.
Heart-centered – I say what I mean, mean what I say, will back what I promise, and I know you. I see you I track with you, and it’s MY honor to do life with you. You are my equal, I am not ahead of you I am simply here doing it with you. I also know you do not NEED me, you are just savvy enough to know what you want and go for it. I get a sense of connection and love with this.
If I am being honest.. I don’t think most of these are bad models. I think they are needed.. except the behind the curtain model which I have experienced first hand to do damage.
To me this isn’t about judging it.. or rating them.. my point it THEY ALL WORK, and are by people being themselves.
What matters is ALIGNING with the one that RESONATES with you.
I’ve modeled a few of them.. and it always felt like something was off.. something was missing .. UNTIL I began to run my business as a heart centered WIDE THE FK OPEN woman.
It’s doesn’t feel good to me to just be your resource and not know your bday.
It doesn’t feel good to me to see you as – not on my level.
It doesn’t feel good for me to have a cool group that people don’t belong in. I don’t like us vs them.
It doesn’t feel good to me to have to hide who my mentors are – who I learn from.
It doesn’t feel good to see an awesome post and ignore it because I got triggered or am
In the habit of not supporting others on social. (If feels good to tell the truth and share that I love it and why) #together
It doesn’t feel good for me to feel in competition w a mentor I’ve hired who could be a peer.
It doesn’t feel good to me to not allow myself to engage in others groups and in my own TRIBE.
So I get to change the rules.
I just get to ?
I want to know you.
I care how you FEEL.. I care how my marketing makes you FEEL.
I care if you are feeling supported and loved.
I want to know your bday
I want to know when you came in to my life… how my work has effected you. These stories are EVERYTHING to me.
I want you to feel like my equal and know I want to do life together with you. My mottos has been #lifetogether since the day I began. No man left behind. Maybe it’s the Marine in me.
Maybe it’s because I gree yo as a kid who NEVER fit in. Couldn’t be Christian enough for mom and moms family-
Couldn’t be be normal enough for dad and dads family.
I want you to feel as free as I do to say it all, do it all, have it all, express it all, connect with us all.
But this is just me… this is NOT a fit for everyone.
I am driven RELENTLESSLY by a powerful love for my kids, my family and my tribe. There is nothing I wont do learn or shift to help support them or YOU to heal, grow and thrive.
It’s why I breathe. It’s everything.
But you also get to tell the truth about what TRULY does motivate you.
Im also motivated by EASY – FUN – EXCITING – RESULTS – BREAKING RECORDS IN MY FIELD – INNOVATING – BEING THE FIRST TO X – GENIUS VIBES..
This is me – real and raw.
I’m not this way because it is good or bad
I am not this way because its socially acceptable (I’M totally NOT acceptable by many LOL)
I am this way because I AM THIS WAY.
Who are you?
How do you want to design your life? Your sales? Your business? Your tribe? Your DAYS? Your Environment?
You get to decide.
I hope this helps you get just a little more clear who I am and who you are. It can be maddening when you feel confused.
YOU ARE ALWAYS ALLOWED TO HAVE WHAT YOU TRULY DESIRE.
You can TRUST your desires.
You are SAFE to follow your desires.
PS: Doors close tonight!
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I know it can feel so confusing trying to figure out which freekin way to generate income in your business.
Everyone is saying to do it a different way.
Then you have to be so damn consistent..
Have to KNOW what to say..
Have to try to do it DAILY .. somehow magically not pushing people WAY WITH YOUR SALES.
Then.. once they do show interest, you still have to get them to say yes to your pricing.
Have to be on THIS platorm, but somehow know all the other ones..
When you tell them your price they’ll think you’re not a good person anymore. They’ll run away and you won’t have access to them anymore.
Your audience can’t afford you
You’re not worth what you charge.
Sales feels pushy and out of character for you.
Feels like you would be annoying and sometimes unqualified to even be selling.
It’s too hard to sell
I will never make it
I never follow through
I am not consistent
Why would anyone buy from me?
I know I don’t enjoy high pressure sales so I’m like extra cautious around actually putting my offer out there. I just want to be able to sell in a way that feels like GIVING.. Like loving them.
I want to KNOW they won’t feel like I am pushing them.. but I WANT TO MAKE HIGH END MONEY!
I want them to feel
–>> But sales feels hard. complicated. yucky.
– Hearing no sucks
– Finding yes’s is hard
– Selling myself is hard
– Connecting w the right people
– People saying they can’t afford it
– It feels overwhelming, it feels like there are so many pieces of the puzzle in order to sell
*** I. HEAR. YOU.***
The good news is you and I both know sales is a SKILL.
And every skill is learnable.
Your loving nature- your badass loving. want to heal the whole world self.. I CANT TEACH… but SALES is a SKILL.
Selling from your HEART.. is a learnable skill.
How it has been is NOT evidence of what is possible for you moving forward.
Want the result? LEARN THE ENERGY OF AND THE SKILL OF the thing.
It’s not always complicated
You are ready to REALLY take your business seriously and SELL in a way that leaves your people feeling LOVED.
You’re ready to leave your impact while understanding EXACTLY how to sell with HEART.. in FULL integrity..
You’re ready to 10x YOUR SALES
I am going to teach you every single thing you need to know to sell every single day WITH EASE- in a way that LOVES on your people and creates this TRIBE feel I have with y’all.
I break it down so you see exactly where you are stuck and exactly how to resolve it. 100% of people I have taught this to have massive breakthroughs in sales.
You will SEE IT CLEAR AS DAY.
I wouldn’t miss this
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