FEELING LIKE IT'S YOUR FAULT SOMEONE ELSE ISN'T DOING BETTER....(and it's your job to somehow fix it) - Mandy Perry

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A man found a cocoon of a butterfly.

One day a small opening appeared. He sat and watched the butterfly for several hours as it struggled to force its body through that little hole.

Until it suddenly stopped making any progress and looked like it was stuck.

So the man decided to help the butterfly. He took a pair of scissors and snipped off the remaining bit of the cocoon. The butterfly then emerged easily, although it had a swollen body and small, shriveled wings.

The man didn’t think anything of it and sat there waiting for the wings to enlarge to support the butterfly. But that didn’t happen. The butterfly spent the rest of its life unable to fly, crawling around with tiny wings and a swollen body.

Despite the kind heart of the man, he didn’t understand that the restricting cocoon and the struggle needed by the butterfly to get itself through the small opening; were God’s way of forcing fluid from the body of the butterfly into its wings. To prepare itself for flying once it was out of the cocoon.

Our struggles in life develop our strengths. Without struggles, we never grow and never get stronger…


It’s ok to let go.
Our power move is to surrender to what is.
It is all going to be ok.

It’s OK to let them figure it out themselves.

They are NOT small.. they are NOT broken.
The same trials that have made you strong will make them strong as well.

It is SAFE for you to have what YOU need now.
It is OK for you to invest in yourself… to take time for yourself… to use resource on YOURSELF.

It’s HEALTHY for you to set strong boundaries that require others to show up for themselves… or deal with the consequences.

AND ANYONE IN YOUR LIFE… that makes you feel like you are bad if you don’t give to them GETS TO experience what it is to deal with a healthy human with healthy boundaries… AND THATS GOOD FOR THEM.

A good temper-tantrum never hurt anyone.
A good old guilt trip that failed miserably never hurt anyone.
A big ugly threat that went unreacted to- is good for the soul.
I nice juicy woh is me session that didn’t successfully manipulate is GOOD FOR THE SOUL.

It’s safe to let them choose the life they want.
You did… and look how incredible you are;)

Love you
Mandy xx

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