Today was a strange day.
I’m sure you can relate…
IT’S LIKE ALL THE BOOGIEMEN came out of the damn closets at ONCE!
(for the people new to us… the Boogieman is just a made up fear that we focus on and give loads of attention to like a little kid thinking there’s one under the bed… BUT there isn’t.)
But this isn’t going to knock us off our game… because we know creepers coming at us are 100% for us every single time.
We know our greatest strength is to see how it is FOR us in the moment.
Example: One of my cleaners kept asking for an advance. Then she asked for an advance again before she had even worked off the first one.
My instinct? Oh man. She must really need the $. I should say yes.
KNOTS IN STOMACH.
The answer is no. an Emphatic NO.
That’s not mean.. it’s not selfish.. it’s healthy.
k… so I may have said I would not pay it without working out some kind of plan and then hid in the bedroom for 10 minutes after I ran my trainings until she left.. HAHAHHHAAHAH .. but I did not pay her, and have worked out the loving conversation I will have with her now.
Another person I hired just isn’t keeping his word.
– So I had a direct convo about it and broke down numbers. Simple. It’s all shifted now.
Someone broke an agreement.. again for the second time.
– So I messaged him and pointed out the behavior and made it clear I was unavailable for it.
There are a few more but I am sure you get the idea… FAMILIAR MUCH?
Here’s the thing…
WE ALL HAVE WEAK AREAS.
First- we get to trust and know all resource and support we need will always be there. We are safe to look right at these things.
When we are confronted by them.. we tent to “get confused”
We tend to have a story.. like “My brain shuts down”
“I get confused” .. or my own personal favorite.. “I get foggy brain.”
I have learned to turn this into a strength by recognizing this is ONLY A STORY. We choose “foggy brain shut down” … it’s not a real thing. It feels it… but it’s not.
No matter how many discombobulating feelings we have.. or how many weird things happen…. WE GET TO HAVE IT STRENGTHEN US rather than confuse us.
We look it dead in the eyes, feel all the guilt, confusion, frustration, desire, want, fear…. and we step.
We might shake a bit.
We might not do it perfectly.
We might feel a twinge of guilt..
We might be messy AF as we handle it..
BUT WE ALWAYS HANDLE IT.
WE always get to grow and learn from it.
WE always get the breakthrough on the other side.
We get to have every single tough or hard situation GIVE VALUE TO US. period.
The only way we miss the reward is by being all chaotic and not tuned in.. by not being intentional and looking for how this is for us.
We get to pull in LOTS of resource to help us stay intentional.
WE GET TO PUT INCREDIBLE STOCK ON VALUE EXCHANGE.
When we find a relationship where there is a VALUE exchange.. we get to hold them close to heart… and we get to be unavailable for the ones that don’t have an exchange.
All of that freed up time we get to use to be intentional so that every single thing that happens gets to up-level us.
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