no kidding trust the process.
My God… if ever there was a thing that brings out resistance… IT’S TRUSTING THE PROCESS.
Even though I have been doing this for 3 years..
Every single time I am in the squeeze getting my ass kicked I hesitate for a moment wondering if I am just fkd up..
Every single time I want to rush the process…
Every time I begin to judge it like it shouldn’t be this way.
Every time I am tempted to feel like… I DON’T HAVE TIME FOR THIS.. whatever this lesson is…
Which is HILARIOUS… and thank God I have been through this enough times that these things are now fleeting..
BUT I HAVE THE OPTION TO CHOOSE TO FOCUS ON THESE just like anyone else…
Here is the thing though….
If I decide to throw a big temper tantrum party for myself… everything is lost.
This is why I have dedicated my life to helping people navigate this.
This is where the power is
The GROWTH is
and THE LEADERSHIP comes from.
You ARE being called to fulfill your purpose.
In order to fulfill it you CANNOT continue showing up as the same person you are now.
You cannot do what you did yesterday and the day before and expand into the results.
And people try over and over to change their habits but can’t.
They do for a week or two but then fall back.. and can’t understand why.
HERE IS A HUGE PART OF IT.
Your brain is wired to think the very thing you feel when you are growing is UNSAFE..
It is wired to focus on the fact that something bad might happen if you keep going.
Religion has backed this for some people… the idea that if it feels like the door is closed that it is not meant for you.
But if you do not understand the human brain design you can easily use that as a crutch to not take a brave leap of faith to back your dreams.
AND THIS IS SOMETHING you can only learn to have confidence in when you actually have experience doing it.
SO I am going to say this directly because I LOVE YOU enough to tell you the truth.
YOU CANNOT FIND MASSIVE SUCCESS if you do not learn to take this leap.
I am not going to lie to you and tell you that it won’t feel like dying. Sometimes it does. Sometimes it feels like you are about to completely fkg up your whole life.
You are going to feel anxious until you learn to trust the process.
You are going to cry.
You are going to be tempted to numb out to not feel the tension of GROWTH.
You are going to want someone to rescue you.
You will want to turn back.
You will want to quit.
You will tell yourself you are just too fkd up to make this work.. (if only you had a better childhood.. if only you had a more fkd up childhood and it made you tougher and all the in-betweens)
You will 100% want to make it easier..
and most of all.. YOU WILL WANT TO RUSH IT.
Make it stop.
Make it end.
JUST FINALLY GET TO THE OTHER SIDE!!!!
JUST HURRY UP and get the results!!
(Not the results that will change your whole life….. the results you predetermined are what matter based on the lack of understanding the process of BECOMING)
This was never about a damn $80k month.
Life SUCKS the moments we make it about that monthly number.
IT WAS ALWAYS ABOUT BECOMING
and the ABILITY TO LEAD others through the same journey.
You cannot lead someone where you have never gone.
You WILL NOT feel in integrity to lead them when you have not GONE FIRST.
This is the journey of changing the world as a leader.
This is where all the massive results come from.
The is where self-confidence comes from.
What I want for you right now is for you to hear this one thing…
IT WILL FEEL LIKE SOMETHING BAD IS GOING TO HAPPEN…
THAT IS HOW IT IS SUPPOSED TO FEEL… it is simply your nervous system adjusting.. and only by staying the course.. day after day.. step after step.. moment after moment will you finally learn to trust this.
What THEY think no longer matters.
“What if” no longer reigns supreme.
MUST make x $ no longer matters…
You are becoming the woman who KNOWS THERE ARE NO LIMITS.
No limits to the power she has to effect change.
No limits to the level of wealth she will attain
No limits to her success
No limits to how fast she grows
and it all began with knowing in the moment when you feel the fear hit that something bad might happen..
you might not get return back on in your $ in time
you might fk it up
you might not be as amazing as you hope you are
you might look stupid
you might fail
is nothing more than the Universe saying… ok hun… let’s see if you are really ready to truly step into the most powerful role you have ever stepped into and lead your people.
Let’s see if you are ready now..
and in this moment you dig your heels in and exhale all the fire that burns in your soul…..
and you STEP.
You say yes.
It’s safe to follow your soul.. after all IT IS SO MUCH SMARTER THAN YOU
PS: This is the work I do every day with my private clients.
If you have been wanting to work 1:1 with me, now is the time.
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