I will probably use that language forever and ever because it has healed me… and I know it heals others…
I want to FEEL worthy. It feels good.
But.. truthfully… it’s a little irrelevant.
Are you worthy of it? Always.❤
Are you a match for it… idk.
Your decisions say it all.
You either are CHOOSING that thing or NOT choosing it.
It’s not actually about worth.
It’s a CHOICE.
“But Mandy, I have to believe I am worthy to make that choice.”
I often make choices for myself that I feel wholly unworthy of.
I simply choose not to LISTEN to the voice that says I’m unworthy.
What if choosing the thing consistently will clear the story that you were unworthy for it.. because you create a NEW familiarity.
You want to make more $?
You have a choice.
You can choose to opt into investing to work with someone who you LOVE how they sell, and get the results they have.. or you can hem and haw and tell a nice story about why you should not do that just yet.
Why you should do something smaller, cheaper, later, TOMORROWWWWWWW
None of that has to do with worth.
It’s simply you, choosing great, instead of choosing good.
It’s actually courage.
It’s OPTING IN.
Success is rigged for the bold.
The bold ones that sometimes feel worthy and sometimes don’t.
You want a man who treats you well?
You have a choice.
Stay with the guy who belittles you or walk away and create space for the loving guy.
THIS TAKES COURAGE.
And that is an option for you whether your current mood is worthy or not.
I know this is a little controversial but I CHOOSE beliefs that serve me. And what serves me is a belief that it doesn’t matter if I FEEL worthy in the moment or not. If I TRUST myself to make it happen in the moment or not… I get to have it either way.
Success, love, fitness, $, fame, influence, impact…
It’s all a CHOICE.
You must CHOOSE it.
You must make the moves that allow an opening for new to come in.
You cannot choose the same sh*t every day and expect new results. NOTHING IS GOING TO CHANGE unless you choose something new. DO something new.
YOU must Opt-in.
The good news is…
This is #childsplay for you.
ALL OF IT.
No more waiting for a feeling that you are worthy.
You were born worthy and nothing has changed that.
IT WAS ALWAYS YOU.
I love you